Green Flags of a Healthy Relationship

Do you know what makes up a healthy relationship? Learn the signs and how you can strengthen your own bond with your partner. 

When it comes to relationships, you often hear about red flags—warning signs that point to potential problems. But it's just as important to pay attention to green flags. These are the signs that mark a healthy relationship.

If you’re in a relationship now and don’t see every green flag right away, that doesn’t mean something is wrong. Each relationship is different, and many green flags show up over time as trust and understanding deepen. Every couple has areas where they can grow, and that’s normal.

What matters most is the desire to work together toward a healthier, more fulfilling connection. Green flags—like open communication, mutual respect, emotional safety, and shared values—are ideals to strive for. They aren’t a checklist to complete from day one. The key to a healthy relationship is to work toward these positive aspects.  

7 signs of a healthy relationship 

Whether you’re currently in a relationship or seeking one, these are the green flags you should look for:  

Respect: You value each other’s views and are kind to each other. You accept personal boundaries. This lays the groundwork for trust and understanding.  

Trust: You are truthful with each other. You believe in your partner’s intentions and feelings, and they in yours. You both take accountability for your actions. This creates a sense of safety and comfort. 

Communication: You are open and honest with each other. You can share your concerns without fear of being judged. Clear communication helps resolve any issues and deepens your bond. 

Support: You are there for one another, in good times and bad. You encourage and support each other. This builds closeness and resilience. 

Healthy conflict: You work to solve disagreements calmly. You compromise when needed. This helps you work through issues without hurt feelings, which strengthens your relationship. 

Fondness and intimacy: You show your love and appreciation for each other by doing small things for each other, telling your partner you love them, or showing physical affection. Showing your love often creates a stronger bond. 

Independence: You each keep your own identity and have your own interests. While you enjoy time together, you can also enjoy time and space apart. Growing and thriving as individuals adds to your connection when you come back together. 

Relationship tips to strengthen your connection 

Healthy relationships don’t just happen. They are the result of both partners' efforts to grow together. Here are some key ways to strengthen your connection: 

• Communicate well. Actively listen to your partner, avoid criticizing each other, and take time to understand each other. Be open and honest about your needs and worries. When tempers flare, take a break. Come back to the conversation when you’re both able to speak calmly.
• Compromise. When disagreements arise, approach them as a team. Work together to find solutions that meet both partners’ needs. 
• Spend quality time together. Schedule date nights, cook dinner together, or plan weekend getaways. It doesn’t matter so much how you spend the time together, just that you plan it regularly.  
• Respect each other's independence. Urge each other to go after passions and interests. That might be a new hobby, a professional goal, or just some quiet time to recharge. Keep a balance between personal time and togetherness.
• Seek help when needed. If you're having issues in your relationship, a professional can guide you. Think about exploring therapy, as a couple or for yourself. Or get insights from books written by experts. You can learn how to communicate better, set healthy boundaries, or discover new ways to connect with your partner. Getting support is a great step toward a healthier, happier connection! 

By recognizing and nurturing these green flags, you can build a connection that keeps growing. Your relationship will not only be strong but also resilient and fulfilling. When both partners feel valued and heard, it paves the way for lasting happiness together. Over time, this mutual care deepens your bond, creating a safe space where love, trust, and joy can thrive. It’s in these everyday moments of kindness and understanding that a truly healthy relationship is built. 

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This article was written by Keleigh Somes, edited by Kimberley Reynolds, and clinically reviewed by LaToya White, MSW, LSW, on August 8, 2025.